LIVING WITHOUT FEAR PART 1. WHAT ARE YOU AFRAID OF?

If you want to change all aspect of your mindset to have life changer, you have to face your fears and stand up to them.  It is normal that while living your life, your fear has been intensified. Fears like losing a relationship, fear of being jobless, or fear of change.

If you want to go through your life without a scratch, you have to own your fears. When you get better at handling all of the painful feelings and thoughts, the more positive your life would be.

There are 6 basic principles that you need to follow for a life without fears:

  1. Expansion- make room for all pleasant sensations and feelings
  2. Deactivation of all unpleasant and painful thoughts
  3. Observation of your strengths, and getting to know yourself
  4. Connection with everything that is happening right now at this moment
  5. Committed Action- take action to end your fears
  6. Values- clarify your values and connect with them

DISCOVER YOUR STRESS QUOTIENT FOR BUSY EXECUTIVES AND ENTREPRENEURS

Take a test to see how you are managing your stress level
Everyonе is facing some stress at some point, between having some social life, paying the bills, work problems,  day to day problems, maintaining good relationships with the family members etc.

This test is not only to tell you that you are stressed but how you are responding and coping with everything that stresses you out.  The test will show you how good your strategies for coping are.

 

Discover Your Stress Quotient for Busy Executives and Entrepreneurs

Most days, I have at least a few thoughts that I feel I cannot control how overwhelmed I feel.
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I frequently find myself telling friends and family members how incredibly stressed I feel.
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My common response to a high level of stress is to emotionally or physically shut down.
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I know that I need to make some major changes to reduce my overall stress, however, I have not yet done so.
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I am sure that other people are much better at coping with difficult situations than I am.
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I often find myself dropping one of the many balls that I try to juggle.
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I often find that I am focusing a lot more of my time and energy on one aspect of my business than I would like.
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When I become overwhelmed with responsibilities, I tend to stop doing things for myself. For instance, I stop exercising, preparing healthy meals, or spending time with friends.
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I often find myself daydreaming, procrastinating, or doing a mindless activity when I need to take care of something, such as paying a bill.
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I frequently overeat or eat unhealthy foods such as fast food when I am feeling stressed out.
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I commonly have thoughts like, “maybe I’m just not capable of dealing with so much.”
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Lately I have felt upset because so much of my time has been dedicated to my work that I have had little time for my family or friends.
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Given my current priorities in life, I feel I am making a sacrifice right now.
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The fact that I have not been able to exercise or do recreational activities lately has been causing me distress.
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I am not happy about the huge investment that my career or another aspect of my life has been lately.
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When I become stressed, I get a short fuse. I either yell at people when I’m driving, am short with salespeople, or argue with colleagues at work.
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I know that I need to relax, and sometimes I try to, but I find that I do not know how to unwind.
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I commonly have thoughts like, “If only I could win the lottery or make it big, I would not be working so hard.
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I find that I get frustrated often because I am not able to spend time with my family/friends or have some time for myself.
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On a typical day, I have several thoughts such as “I do not even have an idea where to start with all the things I need to do.”
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I do not have a number of ideas of activities which are soothing, enjoyable, or sociable for me.
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At least two people have told me lately that I have been complaining a lot about the lack of balance in my life.
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I do not feel in control of my life or future.
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I am not good at prioritizing tasks and I often feel like I need to do everything right away.
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When I feel stressed, I tell myself that I should get more sleep, but am often not able to.
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I avoid talking with people about all that I need to do because I am so behind that I think it would be pointless to get into it.
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I am not really sure what my priorities are right now, so I find myself trying to do too much.
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When there is too much to do, I let things pile up. The laundry piles up, papers on my desk stack up, or phone calls to return collect on my desk.
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I sometimes find it hard to get the energy to get going since I do not want to do the things I need to do.
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I feel that I am doing many things because I have to, not because I want to. This idea often upsets me.
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Learning to Cope and Manage Stress by Identifying Stress Symptoms

Stress management is an ongoing process involving the identification of stress triggers, learning the coinciding stress symptoms that occur, and developing healthy coping skills to manage these symptoms. In other words, stress management involves learning the body’s reaction to stress and utilizing healthy coping skills to provide relief and manage the stress symptoms before exhaustion sets in.

Physiological Response to Stress

When experiencing a stressful situation, the body is thrown into high gear in preparation to deal with the stressor. The fight-or-flight response is a common term used to explain this process of physiological arousal. The response is triggered by the sympathetic nervous system which stimulates stress hormones that prepare the body for action.

Physiology of StressThere are three main stages in the body’s response to stress; these are alarm, resistance, and exhaustion. The alarm stage is being experienced during the fight-or-flight response as the nervous system becomes engaged in preparation for managing the stressor. The alarm stage then leads to the resistance stage where a person begins to adjust and deal with the stressor, and lastly if one is unable to cope or manage the recurring or persistent stress, exhaustion sets in and the individual become overwhelmed.

There are numerous health implications from experiencing repeated stress and the accompanying exhaustion. For this reason, learning to identify and build resistance to stress is vitally important. A starting point for dealing with stress is to recognize in what form it appears. There are typically certain stress symptoms that are common amongst people that can be focused on in preparation for managing stress.

Understanding Stress Symptoms

Recognizing stress symptoms provides the means to deal with the stress early and effectively before exhaustion sets in. Stress symptoms vary from person to person and can be in different domains of life. For instance, exhaustion symptoms can be anywhere from emotional, physical, mental, relational or spiritual.

People may experience fatigue or a headache or become irritable and easily frustrated. Conflict can start to develop in relationships, or the feeling of emptiness and loss of meaning can ensue. Stress is reflected in many ways, and it is important to learn how to read bodily signs for these early signals of distress.

Many life events produce stress, so it is also important to consider the context and circumstances of stress. What situations cause the most stress and what feelings are produced by these situations? What is it specifically about these situations that are triggering stress? Is it the place, the person, the activity, or a mix of all three?

Even positive experiences can be stressful, such as planning a wedding or elaborate holiday gathering. These discrete stressors are important to recognize and deal with to prevent the build-up of unnecessary stress that leads to exhaustion.

Coping with Stress

Coping skills provide a means to deal with ongoing difficulties and make it possible to resiliently move forward in life. Learning to match coping skills with the apparent symptoms can provide a way to better manage stress.

Exercise to beat stessIf physical stress symptoms are present the use of exercise or deep breathing can be helpful. If mental and emotional symptoms are encountered getting support through talking or meditating could be ideal. Learning how to relax the body or relax the mind according to the symptoms being experienced provides a good basis for applying coping skills. Also, learning what coping skills work best for each or what coping skills are accessible depending on our limitations can provide a reasonable counter to troubling stress symptoms.

Coping strategies are not static, and people may need to adapt and alter what strategy is used according to the resources available. The important thing is that coping skills are healthy and do not exacerbate the problem; such as turning to drugs and alcohol for a quick fix to cope with stress.

It is important to note that stress can be beneficial and is essential for growth. Stress can provide the motivation and energy to follow through on important tasks, and as long as people know how to manage stress and work with it effectively, setbacks and frustration can be dealt with more productively.

Aromatherapy to Relieve Stress and Insomnia

Some cases of insomnia are short-term and related to easily identifiable causes such as ingesting too much caffeine or sugar. However, some cases can last longer, creating a destructive cycle of nighttime sleeplessness and daytime fogginess.

Aromatherapy is the practice of using essential oils to support healing and to enhance daily life. Essential oils are concentrated compounds distilled from various parts of plants, including flowers, roots, bark, and leaves. It is the essence of the plant that ends up in those small amber glass bottles of oil. Each essential oil has its special healing property. Some scents can invigorate, some can soothe the mind, and some can help to heal sore muscles or skin conditions. And thankfully, some can help to bring relief from insomnia and reduce the effects of stress on the physical and emotional body.

Aromatherapy Can Encourage Restful Sleep

The following essential oils all have soothing properties. Put a few drops neat (undiluted) on a handkerchief or tissue and place under the pillow. Or experiment with a blend of up to three of the oils.

  • Bergamot
  • Chamomile – both Roman and German
  • Clary Sage
  • Lavender
  • Neroli
  • Rose Geranium
  • Sandalwood
  • Ylang Ylang

Aromatherapy against insomniaEssential Oil Blends for a Comforting Night Time Ritual

A favorite essential oil can be used on its own or blended with up to two other compatible essential oils. A well-put-together blend will bring forth the healing properties of each ingredient as well as a new synergistic healing property of the whole.

After the blend is made, it can be used as is or added to a carrier, or base, oil and used in a variety of aromatherapy methods. Sunflower, grapeseed, and jojoba oils are all good carrier oil choices. A safe ratio to use is eight drops of essential oil in four teaspoons (20 ml) of carrier oil.

Always use the highest quality aromatherapy products possible. Using the best quality of both carrier (base) oil and essential oil will result in a purer product with a longer shelf life. While experimenting with blends, always make tiny amounts at first.

Aromatherapy Methods to Treat Insomnia

To a warm bath add three drops lavender, two drops rose geranium and two drops of ylang-ylang essential oils. Before getting in, swish the bath water around with the hand to disperse the oils. Soak for 15 minutes to get maximum aromatherapy benefits.

Scent nighttime air in the bedroom by adding ten drops of lavender essential oil to 2 cups (454 ml) of distilled water in a fine mist spray bottle. This can be used to spray linens and pillows as well.

Create a soothing massage oil by blending up to three essential oils in a carrier oil. Use the ratio mentioned above. Massage onto temples, hands, and feet or back before going to bed.

  • Blend #1 – four drops lavender, four drops chamomile,.
  • Blend #2 – four drops chamomile, three drops clary sage, two drops bergamot
  • Blend #3 – two drops sandalwood, four drops rose geranium, two drops vetiver

Make a steam inhalation using a bowl of hot water into which 2-3 drops of essential oils have been added. Place your head over the bowl with eyes closed and tent with a towel. Deeply but gently inhale the comforting, aromatic warmth. Do this for a maximum of 15 minutes, taking a break whenever necessary.

A Few Cautions

The information we presented is not considered as a substitution for a professional medical opinion. Pregnant ladies and children should not use these herbal remedies. Except under the supervision of an experienced aromatherapist. Please avoid using plant oils on open wounds or take these internally without medical supervision.

Using aromatherapy is a great way to ease the symptoms of restlessness and insomnia, but remember to look at other stress-reducing tools as well. Yoga, meditation, healthy eating habits and daily doses of good old fresh air can all add up to better sleeping patterns. It’s always best to treat the cause of a condition rather than the symptoms. Sweet dreams!

Reduce Stress Naturally and Be Happy!

Dealing with stress may become an extremely difficult proposition, especially when you are unable to find a way out of such a situation. While in extreme cases, there is nothing else to do, but go for psychological consultation, natural remedies are available during the incipient stages. Through the use of natural stress relievers, you can deal with such problems successfully, minus any side effects, or lingering issues. Those who want to know about simple yet effective techniques to combat stress in their daily lives can read on!

Doing yogaYoga/Meditation

Yoga or meditation is a simple technique yet highly effective, provided you do them under the guidance of a yoga teacher. It helps you to get a sense of peace and calm, while keeping stress at bay. Through the connection between body, mind, and spirit in a serene, healthy fashion, you can get in touch with your inner being and deal with stress effectively.

Writing a Diary

Interestingly, writing a diary is a good way to understand thoroughly the causes behind the stress. Whatever is going on in your subconscious mind can be better understood, when you put words on the paper. Once you realize the root of the problem, it is easier to deal with them in a constructive and effective way. This is what writing a diary can achieve.

Green Tea Benefits

Research has proven the myriad benefits of green tea, and now you can use this magical formulation to deal with stress. If possible, drink it regularly or those who want can even opt for its capsule. Even soaking cotton balls in the green tea liquor and placing them over your closed eyes for a few minutes helps to relieve stress. Try this to believe!

Walking

Morning and evening walk is a good way to come close to nature. This in turn helps you to deal with your stress levels and to find your inner peace. If you regularly experience stressful situations, then walking is an effective method to combat such issues.

Aromatherapy Helps

On-going research is investigating into the extreme capabilities of aromatherapy. Different kind of fragrances has varied impact on our psyche and most of these are positive. In order to use this method for relieving stress you need to contact proficient aromatherapy professionals. Some of the popular herbs used in this therapy include rosemary, lavender, and peppermint.

Body Massages

A full body massage at spas and parlors is a good way to relieve stress and feel rejuvenated. This happens because a massage tends to relax your muscles and brings in a sense of peace and calm. Enhanced flow of blood through the body does the trick. So, those of you who often feel the stress bouts can try out soothing massages to relax and invigorate.

Listening to Music

Listening to music is another interesting way of dealing with stress and anxiety. Just compile your favorite songs in a portable record player and say goodbye to undue worries. Whenever you feel stressed out simply put the machine on the on-mode and you are ready to be happy!

Warm Bath

Warm bath is an easy way to get the circulation your body going and relieve stress and anxiety. You will definitely feel better after a rejuvenating body rinsing, especially when the pressures of the day are taking a toll on you.